tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post1567153315303039197..comments2023-06-28T01:28:11.536-07:00Comments on Revelations: The Personal is Political: No Wedding, No Womb Pt. IIDr. Goddesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10391508073605640275noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-27320530722625008782010-10-28T08:33:20.872-07:002010-10-28T08:33:20.872-07:00The bell hooks quote knocked me off of my feet and...The bell hooks quote knocked me off of my feet and made me utter a Michael Jackson, "Hee heee!"<br /><br />Yep, that's the crux of it all.RiPPahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08876723972974044402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-88799149233518627502010-10-27T20:23:56.802-07:002010-10-27T20:23:56.802-07:00Dear Jaz, thank you so much. I'm sure your pos...Dear Jaz, thank you so much. I'm sure your post is just fine and I'm headed there to read it! I'm more and more horrified everyday by what I'm choosing to dub as the BMAs (the Black Men Ain't Sh*t) Brigade. I feel bad for them and, yet, the idea that there is no hope or growth to be had for Black men is just sad.<br /><br />Kelli, same here. I am thankful for you all posting! Sorry for the delay, I've been working on two (real) campaigns and also procrastinating on Twitter (LOL).<br /><br />Shame is such a powerful psychological place and so (self) destructive. As I've shared with Christelyn, I want her to be free of her shame and, by extension, free everyone else of her need to do the shaming.<br /><br />A girl can dream...Dr. Goddesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10391508073605640275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-67900276230034421442010-10-13T18:36:34.358-07:002010-10-13T18:36:34.358-07:00What a beautiful post! The exact same sentiments I...What a beautiful post! The exact same sentiments I was trying to say in my blog post on the topic! Where there is shame, there is no understanding and summing up the problem of Black single motherhood to women not making the man wed them before they give it up is anti-feminist and anti-progressive. I hope these ladies don't want to go back to the days of Scarlett O'Hara! Thanks for sharing!<br /><br />Kelli<br />www.theblackcouple.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-50834155085303921492010-10-08T20:23:14.786-07:002010-10-08T20:23:14.786-07:00You had me at:
"Quite often, they appear as ...You had me at:<br /><br />"Quite often, they appear as a brigade of intelligent Black women (and they are) whose painful life experiences with Black men and their clear inability to understand or counter the system of white supremacy has led to the "Black men ain't sh*t" messaging of internalized racism."<br /><br />&<br /><br />"We don’t need a professional, Black, Bristol Palin who feels the need to prescribe an abstinence to which she didn’t subscribe."<br /><br />Ding! Ding! Ding!<br /><br />Thank You Dr. Goddess. I've already posted on my own blog, but of course it wasn't AS eloquent...it was ALMOST there tho :)<br /><br />I am definitely following you ma'am.Jazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01820844132614553943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-62935421020062842042010-10-06T11:10:35.476-07:002010-10-06T11:10:35.476-07:00church! not Eddie Long, Snoop.church! not Eddie Long, Snoop.jdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06184778948262488914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-65434163444345880622010-10-03T22:30:58.620-07:002010-10-03T22:30:58.620-07:00Thank you, Michelle! You hit the nail on the head....Thank you, Michelle! You hit the nail on the head. This is why I support http://www.coparenting101.org so heavily; because I believe that teaching parents SKILLS no matter what their relationship status will help the children we all claim we care so much about. Further, we cannot do this without proper support for PARENTS, period. We need economic/social justice, proper education and employment for ADULTS.<br /><br />@Vizionheiry, you know I love your name and I always have so much fun with you! Yes, please let me Twusband know I want him to come back to our family. LOL.<br /><br />@SoccerJerseys Thanks, I work hard on titles and picture captions. They're the highlight of my blogging life, especially if I have to address nonsense.<br /><br />Thank you all for spreading your glittering love all over the characters that make up my blog!Dr. Goddesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10391508073605640275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-59764961332729117002010-10-01T23:55:26.828-07:002010-10-01T23:55:26.828-07:00What an impressive title you have for your post?What an impressive title you have for your post?Soccer Jerseyshttp://www.mysocceruniform.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-46995175428462864582010-10-01T21:43:04.449-07:002010-10-01T21:43:04.449-07:00Excellent, hilarious analysis. I don't think...Excellent, hilarious analysis. I don't think this conversation can occur without a serious inspection of what happened after de-segrataion. I see that is forthcoming in your next post. <br /><br />Now that I know your ideal man, I'll tweet him your way whe I see him post on Twittuh...if he ever does!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15171507692922556089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-61427487631737285192010-10-01T18:33:44.667-07:002010-10-01T18:33:44.667-07:00Tell the truth and shame the devil!! The focus sho...Tell the truth and shame the devil!! The focus should be on parental skills if we really care about our kids!! Anybody can get married, doesn't make them good parents!!Michele Reneehttp://open.salon.com/blog/fakefordnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-44565079270267137992010-10-01T17:18:13.171-07:002010-10-01T17:18:13.171-07:00Thank you, DryerBuzz! It's so good to have you...Thank you, DryerBuzz! It's so good to have you so early (that's what HE said)! LOL!<br /><br />Yes, Noble Giant, they are all related and it's funded, especially if it can become a media gimmick.<br />As for rap, we're working on that. I hope you're following GlennishaMorgan.com and The Fembassy online and on Twitter!<br /><br />ESP, Amen, Praise the Lawd! Thanks for that fantastic example of Scandinavia! Exactly!<br /><br />Moon...you shine just like it!<br /><br />Thanks to you all for spreading your brilliance all over my blog! Yes, indeed..Dr. Goddesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10391508073605640275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-2785095134070083642010-10-01T17:15:12.013-07:002010-10-01T17:15:12.013-07:00Kudos again!Kudos again!Moonhttp://www.khadijahonline.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-89183729167185076152010-10-01T16:15:56.721-07:002010-10-01T16:15:56.721-07:00Yes, amen.. Out-of-wedlock motherhood is not the p...Yes, amen.. Out-of-wedlock motherhood is not the problem. I just heard someone on NPR talking about how Scandinavia has a HUGE proportion of co-habitation families, and they do just fine. Why? Because those countries provide an actual (string of bad words) social structure to support children!<br /><br />Also: Yay S+P! Shoop!ESPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03209044488530116599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-77787775397446669122010-10-01T15:16:04.080-07:002010-10-01T15:16:04.080-07:00I love how you tied the black conservatives into t...I love how you tied the black conservatives into this movement. They need a new vision after seeing their idols fall (Eddie Long and TD Jakes to a minor extent). They really don't have too many outlets left, watching the Republican Tea Party demonize anyone that doesn't look like them and such. And after reading a bit about Salt-n-Pepa what happened to feminism in female rap lol. Poor Nicki Minaj is stuck with carrying the current female standard/sexpot formula.Noble Gianthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03210957849845565216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1077798568962470757.post-36980414247909762652010-10-01T14:50:22.964-07:002010-10-01T14:50:22.964-07:00You had me at "trying to maintain a high leve...You had me at "trying to maintain a high level of self-esteem . . . " that's all I'm trying to do.DryerBuzzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05222614401373052815noreply@blogger.com